Heart Skills: One Small Circle Time That Can Transform the Classroom
- Tearri Rivers
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Helping Children Practice Friendship Instead of Just Talking About It
Walk into almost any preschool classroom and you'll hear children learning words like kindness, sharing, taking turns, and being a good friend.
But within minutes, you might also hear:
"She won't play with me!"
"He took my toy!"
"I don't want to share!"
"You're not my friend anymore!"
Young children don't simply need to hear about friendship—they need opportunities to practice it.
That is where HeartSkills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals can become one of the most powerful moments of the day.

Friendship Is Learned Through Practice
Just as children learn to recognize letters by seeing them repeatedly, they learn healthy relationships by experiencing them repeatedly.
Friendship isn't developed from one conversation.
It grows through consistent modeling, guided practice, encouragement, and gentle correction.
Each HeartSkills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals gives children another opportunity to practice what healthy friendships look like before conflict happens.
Instead of waiting until someone is crying over a toy, we prepare children's hearts ahead of time.
Why HeartSkills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals Matters
HeartSkills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals creates a safe place where every child belongs.
Children sing together.
They laugh together.
They solve pretend problems together.
They discover that everyone has feelings, everyone makes mistakes, and everyone can learn better ways to treat others.
Rather than focusing only on stopping challenging behaviors, Heart Skills helps children build the social and emotional habits that prevent many conflicts before they begin.
Learning Through Moxie
Every Discovery Class begins with one very special guest—Moxie.
Children immediately connect with Moxie's curiosity, questions, and excitement.
Through playful conversations, children help Moxie understand one important Heart Skill while learning alongside her.
Because children naturally teach what they understand, they become active participants instead of passive listeners.
Together they:
Practice listening with kind hearts.
Learn words that build friendships.
Take turns speaking and listening.
Discover simple ways to solve everyday classroom problems.
Encourage one another through songs, movement, and conversation.
Learning becomes something children experience—not something they simply hear.
Creating a Heart Helper Friend

One of the highlights of the Discovery Class is creating a Heart Helper Friend.
As little hands glue, color, and decorate their new friend, children are reminded that each of us can choose to be someone who helps, encourages, forgives, and includes others.
The craft becomes much more than an art project.
It becomes a visual reminder they can remember long after Circle Time is over.
Whenever children see their Heart Helper Friend, they can remember:
"I can choose kindness today."
"I can help someone."
"I can be a good friend."
Jesus Is Our Greatest Example
Long before social-emotional learning became a classroom topic, Jesus demonstrated what it means to love others well.
He welcomed children.
He showed compassion.
He forgave.
He served.
He patiently taught His disciples the same lessons over and over again because He knew transformation takes time.
As educators and parents, we are invited to follow His example by patiently teaching, modeling, and practicing these same heart-centered values with the children entrusted to us.
"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."John 13:34–35 (NIV)
When children learn how to love others well, they are learning skills that will benefit them far beyond preschool.
More Than Classroom Management
Heart Skills isn't about creating perfectly behaved children.
It's about helping children develop hearts that know how to care for others.
One small Heart Skills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals each week can become the beginning of stronger friendships, more peaceful classrooms, and children who are learning to treat others with kindness—not because someone tells them to, but because they are practicing it together.
Small moments repeated consistently often become lifelong habits.
And sometimes, one Circle Time really can transform a classroom.
🎥 Companion Reel: Every Good Work Begins With God
In this week's companion reel, Moxie and I sit down for a conversation about what Heart Skills: Circle Time with Puppet Pals is really all about.
Moxie wonders if Heart Skills is just another Circle Time lesson, and together we discover that it is so much more.
We talk about how Heart Skills helps children learn friendship, kindness, empathy, sharing, and problem-solving before everyday conflicts become behavior plans. Instead of waiting until children are struggling, Heart Skills gives them opportunities to practice making wise choices and building healthy relationships through songs, puppet conversations, games, and hands-on activities.
But Moxie also learns something that surprises her...
Heart Skills isn't only for children—it helps teachers, too.
Teachers don't have to prepare lessons, gather materials, or lead the activities during a Heart Skills enrichment class. Instead, they are invited to simply observe.
As teachers watch children interact, participate, solve problems, and communicate with one another, they gain valuable insight into each child's personality, strengths, and needs. Those observations become opportunities to build deeper relationships that continue long after Circle Time is over.

Finally, Moxie remembers the most important lesson of all.
Jesus teaches every one of us—even teachers—to be kind.
He is the Master Teacher who modeled patience, compassion, forgiveness, and love. Every lesson we teach should begin by seeking His wisdom because every good work begins with God.
Watch the companion reel, "Every Good Work Begins With God," and discover how one small Circle Time can bless children, encourage teachers, strengthen classrooms, and point little hearts toward Jesus—the greatest Teacher of all.
Ready to experience Heart Skills?
Request your FREE Heart Skills Discovery Class and let your children meet Moxie while discovering how one Circle Time each week can make a lasting difference for children, teachers, and the entire classroom community.
Exciting News! We will be offering - 5 Days of Social Emotional Lesson Plans that you can purchase as a download or printed. The 5 Days focus on one Heart skill. Supplementary materials may be purchased as well, like the puppet pals and the creative art projects.
This is especially for those who are not in our service area but want to be able to bring real life social emotional lessons to the children in their classroom so they can have relateable first hand experiences that will help them build strong relationships at school and at home, and for those who want to continue the Heart skill lessons between visits.
Coming very soon!!
